Hot Kissing Tips

Bruce Springsteen wasn't exaggerating the power of a kiss when he crooned "'Cause when we kiss. Ooh, fire." It's true that kissing can be a real turn-on: "It causes the release of endorphins, chemicals that make us feel good. And because it is both physically and emotionally stimulating -- involving all of our sense at once -- it may be the most potent aphrodisiac that a couple has at their disposal," explains Hilda Hutcherson, M.D., author of What Your Mother Never Told You About S-E-X.

Seduction Secrets: What Men Find Sexy In Women

Men instinctively know a sexy woman when they see one, but what is it about a hot woman that oozes allure? These experts tell all about what's sexy to the male brain.

1. Dress

If you ask a man to pick out the sexiest dress on the rack, he'd probably reach for the skimpiest of the lot. Well, technically, he's right. But every woman wears a dress differently, and what looks sultry on someone else may not work well for you, or vice versa.

The secret to wowing your date? "Pick a dress that accentuates your best body parts," advises Steve Santagati, relationship expert and author of The Manual. "Whether you have a gorgeous back, incredible thighs, or lovely collarbones, stock up on designs that not only fit but also highlight those attributes."

2. Lingerie

It's a scientific fact that men are visual creatures, says April Masini, author of Think & Date Like A Man, and one way to appeal to their visual side is lingerie.

Men like just about anything when it comes to lingerie, so you literally have tons of choices. Think matching bras and undies -- whether it's lace, silk, cotton or even naughty latex. Lingerie needn't be expensive, but they should be sexy, which means those five-pack of high-waisted granny panties are banned.

8 Male Sexual Fantasies

Oh the taboo, the secrecy. To reveal our deepest, darkest desires to another human being seems so unthinkable. Which is why most of us keep our naughtiest thoughts to ourselves. But surely you've wondered what sexual fantasies get our male counterparts hot and heavy under the collar? Here are eight of the most popular male sexual fantasies, say experts, plus their takes on the male psyche and what to make of these sexy desires.

1. Roleplay

Given that men are highly visual, you probably won't be all that surprised to know that "dressing up" or roleplay is high up there on the list of ultimate male sexual fantasies. Naughty nurses, sexy secretaries and schoolgirls are among the most popular themes for roleplaying. "What we crave gets hard-wired into us between 5 and 8 years of age (based on what was going on at the time) and role plays can either specifically cater to that or simply unleash forbidden ideas," suggests Rebecca Rosenblat, who is a psychotherapist, and a relationship and sexuality expert.

10 Things You Should Know About Men

Ah the male species. Some things about them will always be hard to fathom -- like how they may be well-versed in every part of a car engine, but they're stumped when it comes to operating the washing machine. Or how they always choke on the words "I love you." But most of the time, men are actually pretty simple to 'get'.

Eris Huemer is a relationship and family counselor and coach. She and her husband, Clayton Winans, are about to release their newest book, The Man-ip-ulator™ vs. The Wo-man-izer™: Everything you need to know to get the relationship you want. This power couple dishes out ten universal things you need to know about what make men tick.